Check out the gold section!
http://www.in-gender.com/CS/forums/112.aspx
http://www.in-gender.com/CS/forums/t/17951.aspx
You post your detailed plan in there the gold members will go over it with a fine toothed comb to make it perfect!
Other benefits you get from going gold on ig (its only 12$ a year):
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use of chat room
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access to all the extreme gender swaying studies
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use of the sale forum
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other gold forums (like the ultrasound gold forum for nub guesses)
*If in a pinch and out of time, I will only check the gold forum before any other forums