Note that these are *not* official instructions. You will need to decide for yourself if you are comfortable accessing content this way or not. 
Forum Admin(s) - Let me know if this post is inappropriate. :)
1. Go to www.thebox.bz
2. Sign up for a free account (you will need to provide a valid email address).
3. Check your email and authenticate your new account.
4. Back on www.thebox.bz, go to the "Browse" tab and search for "8 boys and wanting a girl".
5. Wait until the .avi file downloads.
6. Play and enjoy!
ETA: For those who can't get the file to play, Shixa helpfully
wrote: "You need to download something like Vuze or LimeWire to
download and
view it the easiest way. (Vuze is the best IMO esp if you have tivo
because you can transfer it to your tivo wirelessly.) www.vuze.com
Then when it's in the unwatched file on the left right click on the
movie and say "show in explorer" and then double click on it to view it
with your regular media player."
ETA 2: Shixa also offers to provide access to her private website for viewing if you PM her. See:
http://www.ingender.com/cs/forums/t/141354.aspx