Thank you! That is the best explanation I've heard.
Maybe you could put this post in the yellow portion at the top of the page, so that it never gets bumped down.
I think people really need to hear this, especially if their sway didn't turn out the way they wanted it to. And then they come back and tell everyone that it DOES NOT WORK, and that we shouldn't even bother. I know others have seen those posts, and it makes us feel bad, and sad, and discouraged.
But, this post IS encouraging. And even if I don't get what my heart desires, I will be happy that I at least tried to do what I could.
So, thank you Tamara!